You’re Not Behind. You’re Right on Time.

Have you ever found yourself spiraling in the comparison trap?

Thinking things like: “I should be further along.”

“Why is it happening for everyone else but not for me?”

“I’ve done so much work—why do I still feel stuck?”

If so, you’re not alone.

That voice?

That pressure?

That feeling like you’ve missed some invisible milestone?

It’s all coming from the old conditioning that says your worth is measured by your productivity, your progress, or how polished things look on the outside.

But what if I told you the people you admire most—the mentors, the thought leaders, the ones who seem to be “ahead”—don’t have it all figured out either?

They’ve just practiced coming back into alignment a little faster.

That’s it.

They still have wobbles. They still doubt themselves.The difference is, they’ve learned how to soften into the moment. To trust their timing. To breathe instead of push.

So if you’re feeling behind…If you’re stuck in that loop of “I should be somewhere else by now,” I invite you to pause.

Drop the pressure.

Drop the timeline.

And come back to this moment.

You are not behind. You are becoming.

And sometimes, that becoming happens slowly. Quietly. Beneath the surface.

Sometimes the biggest shifts happen in the seasons where it feels like nothing is happening.But everything is.Integration. Clearing. Nervous system healing. Rest. Recalibration.

Your journey is unfolding exactly as it’s meant to.

And the moment you stop fighting where you are—you’ll feel your body exhale. You’ll begin to move forward not from fear, but from alignment. Not from lack, but from trust. And that, love, is when things start to flow.